A-1.
There is no "one way" to make it in the music biz. If you ask 20
successful musicians, you'll get 20 different answers! And there are no
guarantees that if you do anything and everything you can, that you will get
the result that you want! So check your motives and be careful what you
wish and work for-because you might just get it!
The way I look at it is this: you have to enjoy the process of what you are
doing-because that might be all you get. I've been somewhat rich and famous
with Missing Persons and was never more miserable. So ask yourself, "Why do I
want to play music?" If the answer is anything but "for the sheer enjoyment
of it-and to share it with those willing to listen to it," you may be in for a
disappointment.
Having said that, there are a few philosophical things that might help:
First, be absolutely clear about your goals. Do you want to be a studio
musician, rock, jazz, or country musician? Do you want a sideman gig, do you
want to play original music in a band, do you want a job in a symphony???
Second, simplify and focus on what you can do now, just for today to work
toward your goal - little things - and do one little thing at a time.
Now, from a practical stand point, consider the following: Be pro-active, take
control of what you can.
1) Practice. There is very little resistance to anyone who really plays
great. Consider studying privately, at a university or a music school. Read
books and magazines about your musical interests. Listen to everything, but
listen consciously and critically.
2) Network. Get out there and play, jam, or sit in with others as much as you
can. Word of mouth spreads fast and one thing leads to another. Join the
Musicians Union, Musicians contact services, go to clubs, rehearsal
complexes, music stores, watch for ads and auditions in local papers.
3) Bands or individuals should write, rehearse and record their own CDs Take
advantage of cheap, high quality technology that was unheard of 5-10 years
ago that make it possible to do a great sounding recording at home. Then
pursue local college radio and record stores to play it and sell it on
consignment.
4) If you work a "day job" realize the musical freedom you have, compared to
a professional musician who might have to play some horrible gig he or she
does not want to play, just to make money! Sometimes an attitude change like this
can make a big difference in your creativity. You probably have your basic
financial needs covered, and have evenings and weekends free to do anything
musically you want, without commercial restrictions.
5) Try as best you can to be original. We all get sucked in by the latest
fads & trends, or a favorite band's latest recording. If you get too influenced by
these things its obvious to the listeners and management/record/radio people you
are trying to get interested in you that you are just trying to do the last
thing that was popular.
6) Try to get along with others that you work with. Nobody likes to work
with people who are undependable, insensitive, negative, control freaks,
incompetent, egotistic, selfish, neurotic, lacking a sense of humor,
disrespectful, dishonest, talk too much, or smell bad!
If you are already working with someone who fits any of the above, you may
want to ask yourself if it's worth it musically, financially, prestigiously or otherwise.
7)Don't burn bridges. Try to secure your next career or employment move
before canceling your current one, and when you move on, try to do it
honestly and remain on good terms. You never know when you might need a former
colleague's help.
8) Ride the "roller coaster". That's what my mom told me the life of a
musician is like - and I think she's right! Exhilarating highs, exciting twists &
turns, devastating lows, and those long slow climbs back up. No one can be
working, creative, successful, admired and in demand all the time. We all have periods of
transition, depression, insecurity, frustration, etc. where nothing seems to
be happening. Don't think that you are the only one that goes through this. I
myself, and every other human being in every walk of life, no matter how
successful they appear to be, has to go through this too.
The times where nothing seems to be happening are actually periods of
subconscious activity and growth, or a sort of cosmic alignment where
things you are going to be doing or people you are going to be working with are
all coming around to the time and place that it's going to happen. So don't
force it. Sometimes it's best to take advantage of these times for
friends, family, hobbies, and other enjoyable activities.